Very wise words.
In the beginning, I made it all about him.
It was an escape of a sort. A distraction. If I stayed focused on him, I didn’t have to think about me.
What I was going to do now that my life was washed away.
How I was going to survive and rebuild.
Where I was going to live.
And who I was without him.
But at some point, I had to decide to make it all about me. To turn my energies towards what I could change rather than curse what I could not.
When you first step upon a nail, the sharp steel tearing through tender flesh, it is prudent…
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Out of the Chrysalis 
So very lovely, powerful and poignant.
You my friend have grown so much over the last 4 years, as have I.
You have found a strength and courage within yourself that I am sure you never knew existed. I know I have.
Keep growing and becoming who you were truly meant to be!
Blessings,
Phyllis
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thanks Phyllis this post I re-blogged from stilllearning2b. I felt very connected to it.
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